My sister and I always have a writing session together at least once a week at our local bookstore. Usually, while we’re there, one of us asks the other a grammar question.
Sometimes we can figure out the answer, sometimes we can’t. Sometimes we look it up on our phones, other times we’re too lazy and just write down whatever. We know what we mean. We can look it up later.
Though there are some people who love to argue over grammar issue with my sister and me.
Use “I” when you’re referring to yourself before the verb in the sentence.
Example: John and I ran three miles this morning. (The subject is before the verb “ran”)
Use “me” when you’re referring to yourself after the verb in the sentence.
Example: Andrew ran three miles this morning with John and me. (The subject is after the verb “ran”)
Think of “I before E except after C.” It has nothing to do with this, but it’s an easy phrase to remember. Also remember that not only does I come before E, but it also comes before the verb. Maybe that will help, maybe it won’t.
Affect and Effect are twins. Sometimes you can tell them apart, but other days it’s difficult.
I hope this post will have a lasting effect on you. (See what I did there?)
Affect is a verb. You use it to influence something. It can be used in the act of changing something.
The book affected me to do something inspirational. (The book influenced me to do something.) His words affected me so much that I would do something I’d regret. (He influenced me to do something.)
Effect is a noun. You use it when you’re talking about the change itself or the result of something.
The drug has many side effects. (Taking the medicine can result in other symptoms.) The remix of the song had a higher effect as the original version. (Listening to the remix song resulted in better buys.)
I hope this post affected you to make better grammatic choices. (Okay, I’ll stop now.)
Example: 1. He said he would do it. (Who will do it?) 2. She found the remote. (Who found the remote?)
–Used when speaking about “him” or “her.”
Example: 1. I told her to vacuum the living room. (Whom did you tell to vacuum the living room?) 2. Should I tell him? (Whom should I tell?)
“Who” and “whom” was always something I got confused with. I don’t think I’ve never used the word “whom” in my life because of it. Everything was “who” for me because I deemed that to be the right way all the time.
Of course now I have no excuses not to use these words the right way. And neither do you.