I’m A Big Kid Now

I turned 21 today. So, l guess that makes me more of an adult than a big kid, huh?

I don’t feel like an adult and l don’t really think l want to be an adult even though l’ve had the adult responsibilities for quite a few years now. I have been able to get myself to go to school full-time, l have a full-time job, l stay out of trouble, and (my personal favorite) l have bills. I’m cheap; l’ll admit that. But when you’re paying for school out of your own pocket and have other bills to pay, it helps to be extremely careful with money.

So, l am an adult. Mentally, however, is a different story.

For my birthday l got Disney puzzles, Disney movies, Ninja Turtle episodes and a video game, and the two Hobbit movies and the Lego Hobbit video game. I also got a pretty bag from Thirty-One for work and also a book on Forensics for research for Detective Florence. Yes, l am officially an adult.

21 is one of those “milestone” birthdays. I can officially drink now that l’m an adult. Of course, that doesn’t really excite me.

A lot of people asked what l was doing today (mainly asking what l was going to get for my first drink) and l told them all the same thing: nothing.

I stayed home all day today and got a lot of editing done on Detective Florence. It was great. School starts on Wednesday so l know l’m not going to have a lot of time to write and/or edit. So today and tomorrow needs to be spent getting as much done as l can.

Most people have a big birthday bash for their 21st, but l prefer low key. My mom’s side of the family came over to celebrate yesterday. My parents, sister, and l are going out to dinner Thursday night.

It was a good day. Needless to say, I’m more than happy.

25 thoughts on “I’m A Big Kid Now

  1. Happy birthday, Rachel!! 😀 I’m so glad you had a writerly birthday. Who cares what other people do or don’t do for their 21st birthdays? Editing sounds like a pretty awesome time to me. 😉

  2. I prefer low-key birthdays, so I understand completely. I don’t even ask for gifts anymore (unless they’re practical house-hold items I need) but cards. I love getting cards. For any occasion. Happy birthday! Enjoy being 21. Once I passed that marker, I stopped paying attention to how old I was. Really. I don’t lie about my age. I just don’t make it a point to remember it either. I’m as old as I feel, so sometimes I’m 5, sometimes 24 (my actual age, which I had to calculate), and sometimes I’m 80. Just depends on the day I’m having. As long as you’re having fun and living life the way you want, it doesn’t matter. 😉

    • That’s so true. Depending on your mood and responsibilities of the day you can be any age you want. As for lying about our age… most people assume l’m 12 or so. So l don’t have to lie about my age, even if l wanted to. 😉

  3. Happy 21st!!!! I remember feeling like that, and i’m pretty sure I got disney movies for my 21st as well. (heck, i still get them and i’m, well, years older now)

  4. Happy Birthday! I love that you didn’t make it all about drinking. Too many people do. The 21-year milestone is about so much more than reaching legal drinking age. Good luck with the Writer’s Digest contest you entered!

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